We all have faults; no matter how self righteous, perfect we think we are. But when it comes to females, they embrace this fact with a wry smile. For cardinally it’s a sin for them to not; dress to impress. Dress like the rest, but look better, that much better. Matching outfits that glares in your eyes, just enough for you to become aware of their presence. Maybe a little more than aware; allow them, to become the centre of your attention. As surely they didn’t dress, so potently glamorous for you to take notice of them, only in small doses.
But they fail to grab hold of the male’s mindset. We are not impressed by the way they adorn themselves, well maybe but it’s not that essential. Her being sexy is and will be far more, essential. The Coco-cola bottle mentality; the curve keeps our eyes, straight on the figure. That’s me being brutally honest. For we care to let go, all the before, and think of how; sexy she looks now.
This leaves a big gap for girls to live up to, for not only are they plagued with the up keep of their dressing. But now, keeping up to the fitness regiments and watching that regular Pilates program, which seems oh so imperative; for the knowing girl. No girl wants to be that girl; who walks around with her hands smelling of chicken gravy. Creating more humor for the world at large; as she walks in those tight jeans, compressing the lard unattractively. No guy wants that girl, uncouth to say the least. No matter how narrow minded us males are; we aim for that sexy thing. But sexy is based on perception, which leads me to the truth….
The truth is; perception poisons our thinking, above all else. What seems to matter most are others’ perceptions about our perceptions that leave us, a little less than our selves. We are not free to be who we are. We cannot think as we would like, for what we like, is not of their liking. So we are left as wanderers; both male and female, living up to someone else’s perception of how things should be. Of how sexy that girl really is. ‘My nails really need to be done’- the celebrity mentality. Nothing is wrong, in aiming to become a celebrity. But something is wrong, in becoming like the celebrity. Nothing is wrong, in, more than appreciating the ‘thick’ girl.
Sexy and girls goes hand in hand, Likewise, beer bottles and males. Just maybe, these bottles are influencing our thinking, more than enough. They say females like what they hear and males see what they like, pardon my twist to the saying. But all in all, sexy girls like hearing that they are sexy. Leaving them; looking that much better, But that’s only perception, right?
Maybe not, maybe fabrication….
hahahaha!!! lolz I'm so loving this! lol
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Yep these are true! Let me mention something [else]: Some girls DO have the males' perceptions of how way they dress themselves (toward themselves in the mirror)in order to get right attentions from the others within responses when not purposely attracting them looool & to get right men.
LMAO: Am I spitting out the information too much?
P.S. sorry about the one (in the first place)oops my bad.
Well I can see what you're saying; think like the male's character your wanting i suppose, in order to attract that type of character...But the others you speak of, makes it seem a sign of desperation....
ReplyDeletewell said silx...proper...its all the perception not of what u think but of what people think...just today my fren came to me syin she wants a tongue piercing but not getting it again because people say its 'a sign that you give orals'. I told her to look at it if someone has a chin piercing some people say its the sign of a slut...u get ur eye brow pierced some people say its the sign of a freak. So she got my gists...whatever you do people gona have something to say about it.. negatively or positively its all perceptions of people...u just got to live life the way you want to feeling happy. And you point that out too in the'Fabricated truth' but you know what...the reality is this general mentality will never change so both the guy and girl must have to have their mind set.
ReplyDeleteGirls do whatever you feel comfortable doing...love your body...sexy is a different thing for different persons.... does not mean thin or being thick....it simple means being healthy and look on it most girls on the media arent as true as they may seem!
PS.Sry for the long long epistle....lol
Hey D. i enjoy reading your work becasue i think i find diamonds sometimes. anyhoo i hope you dont mind but i've decided to leave a very long opiniated comment. i hope your not offended. just a literary anaylsis. I begin:
ReplyDeleteWe all have faults; no matter how self righteous, perfect we think we are. But when it comes to females, they embrace this fact with a wry smile. For cardinally it’s a sin for them to not; dress to impress. Dress like the rest, but look better, that much better.
i have to begin by assuming that your comment that females embrace their imperfections with a wry smile is an example of you, as the author, being satirical. For there is a large juxtaposition between the imagery of females embracing their imperfections and the wry smiles on their faces. your first paragraph goes on to stress how women dress up to have people look at them as some sort of a inherent almost religious like duty. excuse me if your want for use of metaphor has some what perplexed me into the essence of the first section of your text. After reading it i question whether or not use of your metaphor was to highlight your illusion that woman are in fact in denial of their imprefections, or the smugly think that theirs are in fact less significant than their counter parts due to their air of self righteousness?
stanza two goes on to perplex me even further for you say that that 'her' being sexy is not essential and then write how in the very next line it is very essential.
" No matter how narrow minded us males are; we aim for that sexy thing. But sexy is based on perception, which leads me to the truth….
The truth is; perception poisons our thinking, above all else."
your 1st sentence above suggests that you consider thinkin men aiming for that sexy thing is not narrow minded. i seriously disagree with you on that point. not to say having a sexy bf or gf aint cool but essentially by describing said female as a 'sexy thing' she is being objectified and her sexiness is being explicitly implied to be the most important thing about her. Leading me onto your 'truth'. I fail to understand how perceptions poison peoples thinking. perception by definition being something we see, a specific veiw point people take on things or situations in this case females and their sexuality. if you meant this literally i will argue that perception is what enlightens the world in the sense of the fact that our discoveries of various contrasting perceptions to that of our own demand us to challenge if not verify our own, your poem being an instance of that. On that note different perceptions of feminine sexuality only challenge our institutionalized ideas of what female sexuality should be and i think we can both agree with the fact that institutionalized anything should be considered negligable as far as intellectual elevation is concerned. indeed ill agree with you to the extent that some women do dress up for attention however i would challenge that the reason they do so is becasue of their perceived deeper inherent 'need to please' that has not been challenged by anything else.
hope my opinion is somewhat coherrent. i feel like im writting an essay and to be honest im tired. i genuinly like reading your work tho b. like i said i think your pieces are filled with diamonds. at the same time, im kinda training to criticize everything i read. x.....
From Tumba....
I really really appreciate the comments made. Being controversial is good, and incites the reader to contribute and this case making constructive comments.
ReplyDeleteTrishana: "...sexy is a different thing for different persons.... does not mean thin or being thick" - Spot on! This highlights the fact; you've successfully gained my objective.
Tumba, I really like the fact you spent that much energy in making a comment. Sadly, you took sides in your analysis and in essence, misinterpretation occurred.
This poem is not an all out attack on females or the male's perception of females! It's an unbiased survey of both the male and female’s perception when it comes to ‘sexy’. My aim is to show that there is really no basis of how males generally perceive a female, and females work so hard in satisfying the male’s perception of themselves...When they should be comfortable with themselves, and males should appreciate them for who they are.
“No matter how narrow minded us males are; we aim for that sexy thing...” – I am simply underlining the fact that going for the sexy thing, is actually being narrow minded.
“.... females embrace their imperfections with a wry smile is an example of you, as the author, being satirical” – Spot on
Tumba: “....I will argue that perception is what enlightens the world in the sense of the fact that our discoveries of various contrasting perceptions to that of our own demand us to challenge if not verify our own, your poem being an instance of that” – Which makes my point even clearer; people’s perceptions influences that of our own. This influence causes pollution to our own perception.... We are not free to think for ourselves, a hindrance is created
I appreciate your in depth analysis a lot, but one should look at the title of the poem; ‘the fabricated truth: sexy and girls.’
You’ll find these fabricated truths in the second and third stanzas....These are all ideas created from people’s perceptions and they value them as truths. I am simply saying they are not truths...and if they are, they’re fabricated!
Silx, lol LMAO!!! yup, you are [so] right! Cuz there are not perfect or should I say, ideal..man for them individually and that's what started it: the desperation. YEAP! DWL..but don't ever get to think wrong about desperation... yeap. lol O_O
ReplyDeleteTumba! Wow you got me really muted. But I'm forced to say anyway which is from my heart that I am VERY, very impressive. Somehow this passage don't seems to need a analysis, at all, just for itself..yeah i thinks so. And it is weird that I don't find it offending too. No offenses. Lool girls need to think logically on the ground,lol!. Tumba, I would love to recommend you to have man's perspective for a while, just for a while. It is like giving another way around to give in, their senses to something... to have the senses what the men were talking or signaling about. Anyway, i hoped you don't get it too offended. Nuff respect & love.